- By Margaret Snow
- Around Town


Don’t want to Date
Don’t want to Date: I could say so much about the controlling and presumptive behavior of not only the man you’ve been dating, but your friends and family as well. But let’s look at, what to me, is the elephant in the room. Your intuition (that gut feeling making you literally feel sick) is telling you to end this relationship that you know won’t go anywhere. I don’t know at what point we stopped paying attention to physical feelings that are there to guide us, but they are real and in your case it’s alerting you to possible danger. You know what to do, and seem to want confirmation from a source outside of yourself. Hurting is feelings is irrelevant. What is important in here is what you are feeling. End the relationship now, pay attention to what you feel in the future, and respond accordingly.
Click Here to write to Dear Margaret. Margaret Snow is a Life Coach in Ithaca, NY.
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