- By Margaret Snow
- Around Town


Living with a Martyr
Dear Living with a Martyr: Your attempt to one-up him with even bigger tales of woe probably feels to him like you are upstaging him. It may have shocked him at first, but he’s not getting the admiration from you that he is looking for. You can try the direct approach and ask him what he plans on doing about the situation or why he lets people victimize him. If that doesn’t work, you should begin the process of moving out or, if feasible, ask him to leave. This doesn’t sound like a situation you are going to be able to resolve with this person. He’s putting out a cry for help you don’t have the time or inclination to deal with.
Click Here to write to Dear Margaret. Margaret Snow is a Life Coach in Ithaca, NY.
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