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 Lansing's Advice Column

Dear IMO,

My partner and I often dine out at restaurants that offer senior discounts for dinner on certain nights of the week. There is one waitress that always gives us the discount without asking whether or not we are senior citizens. Although we both have gray hair and might look like seniors, we are not quite of age. Is it our duty to correct the record, and tell her that we do not qualify for the discount? Should we just keep quiet, and let her continue to assume we are seniors?

Phyllis

Dear Phyllis,

Most people would be offended by such an assumption especially when it comes to one’s age. You seem to be flattered that the waitress assumes you are between the ages of 55-116. Senior discounts are nice, and they are one way that stores and restaurants attract individuals to purchase goods and services at a reduced rate.

However, you are overlooking one important factor: you do not qualify for this particular discount. By your own admission, you are not a senior citizen. Although your actions will not bankrupt the restaurant, you are cheating the owner out of his/her rightful 10-15%.

The next time you dine at this restaurant, you ought to tell the waitress that you do not qualify for the senior citizen discount. If you are on a tight budget, then you can always purchase one of those discount coupon books that offers 2 meals for the price of one, buy one get one free, and hundreds of other discounts and offers to good to pass up. You’ll be helping out the local business community and enjoy your dining experience guilt fee. Be patient; you’ll qualify for the senior discount before you know it.

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