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Dear IMO,

I am currently employed, but I am actively searching for a job. In fact, I have had my first interview with the company that I hope will hire me. It went very well, and I was told by the individual leading the interview that I was a "very strong candidate" and would be invited to the next round? How should I handle things back at work? Do I tell my boss? Do I let others know?

Thanks,
Lynda

Dear Lynda,

As a general rule, one should never share news of a new job until one has made the decision to accept that new job. Your job search should be invisible to those around you. Most employers accept this way of doing business and will not change their opinion of you because of your decision. The same is true for your co-workers. Unless you trust them completely, keep the news of your job search quiet until you have signed on with the new company.

There are people you should tell-your spouse, parents, and other close family and friends who might advise you on interview techniques, assist you in choosing the right shirt and tie to wear, or simply offer up support or an extra prayer on their rosary. Keep in mind that those you do tell should be able to keep a secret; otherwise, do not let them into your circle of trust.

Once you have decided to accept the offer, you need to tell your boss. You ought to approach it with a positive message emphasizing the new responsibilities and challenges it will offer and avoid any tirades about the workplace, management, or other employees. (If your employer offers an exit interview, then this is where you can voice your opinion). This is about you, your new career, and how grateful you are to have had an opportunity to learn and grow at the company. You now need to explore new opportunities and challenges, and hope they will understand.

Whether they do or not is their problem. In the meantime, continue to work and engage with those in your company in a normal, professional manner.

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