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Dear IMO,

My daughter has chosen not to attend college this fall. We are in complete agreement with her decision as she is not ready to settle down and concentrate on any particular course of study. While she takes some time to decide her future plans, she continues to work as a salesperson at a department store in the mall.

My husband wants to charge her a weekly rent so she will learn what living like an adult is all about, and demonstrate to her what benefits a college education might have versus working at a job for minimum wage. He suggested $25.00-$50.00 a week. I have expressed some concern about this since she might think we are charging rent in order to influence her future decisions.

What is your opinion? Are we treating her unfairly?

Sincerely,

Christine

Dear Christine,

At first glance, the idea of charging your child rent seems a bit harsh. But, the more I read your letter, the more I like your husband’s idea. Clearly, you agree with your daughter’s decision to wait a year before entering college. She has a job, and your husband believes she should contribute a portion of her salary to help with expenses.

It sounds like a good idea, but you need to explain to your daughter why you are planning to charge her a weekly rent. In your discussion with her, you ought to emphasize the importance of her financial contribution to help meet the needs of the household. Perhaps you might compare the prices of one or two bedroom apartments in your area in your discussion. Clearly, if she decided to find a place of her own, she might have to pay up to $600.00 a month for rent, and that price would not include food, clothing, or utilities.

The idea is a good one, but allow her time to ask any question she may have. I think the price you have set is very fair, and in the end, so will your daughter. Good luck.

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