- By Matthew P. Binkewicz
- Around Town


Lansing's Advice Column
Dear IMO,
I have a real dilemma, and I’m not sure how to explain it. My wife of 18 years has been acting strangely. From what I’ve pieced together, she began to change about 6 months ago. At first, it seemed just a blip on the marital radar. But there are now some obvious signs that something is awry. We have not had relations in nearly two months, and yes, there is always some excuse each time I attempt to be intimate. I have a hunch that she may be seeing another person. A close friend of mine has advised that I call a private detective and have him follow her around for a few weeks. Should I take his advice? Am I acting paranoid?
Thanks,
DJ