- By Margaret Snow
- Around Town
Dear Margaret: My sister in law pretends to be the picture of innocence, but in truth uses this persona as an act to manipulate a situation to her advantage. This, of course, is her own business, except when she uses her angelic theatrics to cause rifts between me and members of my husband's family. She tells half truths about me and when I call her on them, she acts the victim and ever so sweetly gushes about how awful she feels about making such a terrible 'mistake'. Last week she told my mother-in-law that I simply didn't want to attend a family function. What I actually said was that I had a work commitment and wasn't able to attend. I'm tired of defending myself against her and wonder at what point she will cause real problems with my family relationships. Any suggestions on how I can cause her to cease these tactics?
Targeted by an 'Angel'
Targeted by an 'Angel'