- By Margaret Snow
- Around Town
Dear Margaret: After losing my wife last year, I've decided to downsize and move into a condo where I'll have less inside maintenance and the HOA will take care of outside maintenance. My problem is that my grown children are squabbling over the house and furnishings, like it was theirs to divide. I feel like I'm in the middle. I know some of the disagreements come from a place of wanting to hang onto items that hold sentimental value and remind them of their dear mother. Other arguing seems to be born of pure selfishness. I can't possibly do the work of sorting and distributing by myself, but having my children 'help' me is causing me too much stress. How can I get through this next stage in my life without causing hard feelings and so much anxiety?
Can’t Move Forward
Can’t Move Forward