- By Matthew P. Binkewicz
- Around Town
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Lansing's Advice Column
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Dear IMO,
My 81 year old mother recently told all of her children that she intends on marrying her 79 year old friend, Jack. They live in the same Senior Living Center, are both widowed and have been "dating" for two years. At first, I was shocked as were my siblings. Why would two octogenarians want to ruin a great relationship by getting married? Yes, I am a bit cynical about the whole idea, but my family and I do have some real concerns about this marriage. What can they accomplish by marrying that they can't do as friends? We are also worried about their health as well as their legal and financial affairs. Are we being overly cautious?
Sincerely,
Patty




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