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Dear IMO,
I have been a widower for just about two years. My wife and I were married for 51 years, and they were really wonderful. Before she died, she gave me permission to date other women when the time seemed right. I'm beginning to feel the time might be right as I find it more difficult to live alone. Do you have any tips on getting back in the dating arena?
Sincerely,
Alex
Dear Alex,
There is a saying that I often use when I meet people for bereavement counseling: "Living alone doesn't mean you have to be alone." Just because you are a widower and currently living alone doesn't mean you have to abandon the idea of building a relationship with that someone special. The idea of dating in mid-life following the death of your wife may seem daunting, but there are some easy steps to take.