- By Matthew P. Binkewicz
- Around Town


Lansing's Advice Column
Dear IMO,
My daughter graduates from high school this week. Some of her friends are planning to find work in New York City for the summer. They have a summer rental in New Jersey and are hoping my daughter will join them. She really wants to go, but I’m not sure she is ready to live on her own. In addition, she will be going off to college in August, and it would be nice to have her around for the summer. Should I allow her to go?
Sincerely,
Marianna
Dear Marianna,
You think she’s not ready to live on her own? I think the real issue centers on you in that you are not ready to see her leave home. Most parents are apprehensive about their children leaving home, and you are no exception.