- By Matthew P. Binkewicz
- Around Town


Lansing's Advice Column
Dear IMO,
Our nine year old son often plays with a friend from his class at the friend’s house. Our son tells us that this friend is his best friend. His parents place very few restrictions on him especially in the realm of videos and DVD’s. Our son is not allowed to watch violent or inappropriate movies, but there are no safeguards when he is at his friend’s house. Do we have the right to ask those parents to respect our wishes when our son is at their house?
Many thanks,
Concerned Parents
Dear CP,
Yes, you do have the right to ask the parents to honor your wishes and restrict certain videos and DVD’s, but that request pertains to your son only. While he is visiting, his friend might decide to watch a show that your son should not. That means one of two things: your son leaves the room and finds something to do until the show is over, or he leaves and heads for home.